2019 Dating a Thai Girl Successfully with 12 Secrets

1. The first date which allows you to make some mistakes

If you thought a date would be quite easy, then your first date in Thailand wouldn’t let you feel this way. There were few communication problems between us cause my girlfriend can speak English fluently. Although there weren’t any language barriers, the first date was a difficult experience.

I made each mistake that you might have.

I hugged her which is not the Thai way of greeting her. What did I do next? I touched her head. Don’t even ask why I did this. Honestly, I don’t know, like I don’t know that it is a taboo to touch a woman’s head neither.

Thank god she didn't leave the restaurant when I put the fork and spoon on the table after the meal which is also impolite. You would be welcomed to put them on your plate.

2. This is what will happen when you kissed her in public.

Please don’t do this.

I am one of Farangs. After our first date, I tried to kiss her in the middle of a busy mall with about ten people just stood next to us. And I was so stupid to kiss her in that place. I never tried it in my apartment before, maybe it will work better.

I can't think of a worse place to kiss a Thai woman. Can you? Well, probably in the middle of the train, people around will watch your kisses with weird expressions silently. Anyway, don't try to kiss a Thai woman in public.

Even though she is the girl in your dreams, you shouldn’t kiss her in public, because it will make her feel ashamed and extremely uncomfortable.

3. No Thai woman wants a Stereotyped Franc

Bangkok is a fascinating city.

Standing in Bangkok, the skyscrapers remind you of New York, the transportation system is better than most American cities, and the ubiquitous malls and cinemas are more futuristic than spaceships. The city has developed into a globally recognized metropolis in recent years.

The only thing that you will find the same all the time is the foreigners in Chang Beer vests.

I have met a guy who complains about Thai women who are all arrogant and brash. The reason he told me is that he had been dated with three different Thai girls, but none of them contacted him anymore after their first date. I asked what he wore for the date?

Apparently, he said he wore a tank top, Bermuda shorts, and sandals for his first dates with girls.

Is it weird that the girls didn’t ask him to marry them?

Come on! Thailand is not what it looked like 50 years ago, and Bangkok is a metropolis now. Only those guys who dressed properly will catch girls' attention.

4. Meeting her family is like celebrating Christmas

What should you do if meeting her parents is a must-do?

You probably think that “ Oh, it’s not a big deal.”

Well, you may think so, but not for her. Both for Thai girls and their parents, it is a very very important and serious thing. Please remember if a girl introduces you to her parents in a conventional country, then don't treat it like a normal thing in your life.

Before meeting my GF, she never brought one guy to her family until me. I remembered how nervous their parents were when we first met, and I will never forget that day.

5. It’s hard to eat without a knife

Have you ever tried eating steak without a knife and fork?

Well, you will have this kind of experience if you date with a Thai girl. Most restaurants in Thailand don’t have knives, and you must learn to eat with a spoon and fork, which is better than you must eat with chopsticks.

Good Luck!

How is the food?

Oh, what I can say is that it is delicious, with chili pepper firing your stomach and MSG making you dizzy. My advice here is you can cook yourself, which is healthier and you GF will love to cook with you.

6. What’s the reactions if they know I have a Thai GF

What will happen if I told my friends that I have a girlfriend from Thailand?

They had no doubt to ask me whether she is a bar girl and keep hassle me with ladyboy jokes. Thank God, I don't care what others think about me and my girl. But some of my friends gradually get to know her who thinks that she is a good girl.

Does it mean that the ladyboy jokes have gone?

Absolutely not!

If you want to date a Thai girl, you must get accustomed to the questions and surprises, even crude reactions from your family and your friends.

7. Remember that you two are from totally different places

Have a relationship with your perfect girl is so beautiful that sometimes you will forget the differences between you.

Sometimes I will say something normal as usual like fluent sarcasm just like everyone does, but My girlfriend cannot get it. So what if you like to tell sarcastic jokes, but your Thai girl cannot catch you?

Please remember that you two from different world and explain it to her with patience.

8. Communication is the cornerstone of your relationship

I hate to say it, but it's true that there is no relationship that will truly exist if you can't speak Thai or she can't speak English. I have tried to build relationships with some Thai girls who don't know English at all. Yes, I tried but failed them all.

The lesson here you can learn is you at least can communicate with her. As I mentioned before, communication is the foundation of all relationships, no matter where they come from.

9. When you work, it’s not always Sanuk and Sabai

It is not a secret that Thai women like to have fun, play games, eat outside and get attention from their boyfriend.

But what will happen if you have to work?

There are no other ways but to build your border. Unless you want to be a broken flange in a country without any social security system, you absolutely must follow this rule and do have a job.

You must work when your girl wants you to be with her for the new film Transformers.

10. When your brain goes totally nuts, she will make you calm down

Westerners are very different from Thais.

I am worried about the future while she care about what to eat today. I cannot imagine I will be a poor guy after I retired while she cannot imagine life without Chon Chicken.

Don't misunderstand me. I do believe that your Thai girl is the one you love most, but I still get to say that they are hard to understand.

You will be easy to get mad when you worried about your future, but she will calm you down. And that is love.

11. Choose the right Thai girl, she will be your loyal girlfriend forever

I cannot emphasis it.

If you date a bay girl one day, your whole life will be ruined in the end. Well, no 100% guarantee that your life will be ruined, but the rate is pretty high cause I have seen so much of it. When a bar girl says love to you, don't ever believe them.

She is a whore, yes, what all she wants is money.

I don't want you to be another Franc who hates Thailand because you end up dating the wrong girl. There are millions of good girls waiting for you, what you need to do just open your eyes and find the right one.

12. Enjoy every moment, and remember it

Well, you must open your eyes as well as close your ears. Don't think too much about everything in the wrong way. No one knows if you two will e together for your whole life, and the important thing is to enjoy every moment.

In the end, the only thing that matters is that you dare to try. Seize every opportunity, and enjoy your Thai girlfriend's kindness, support, and company.