A Guide to Non-Asian Men Dating Asian Girls

If you want to date with an Asian girl and to be with her forever, then here is a guide for you to make it a success.

Asian women have attracted a lot of attention from men, though many of them are negative about it. When men try to flirt with Asian girls, it will be surprised to see that they will falling in love with her completely and lose themselves. It is creepy as things that they never think of will happen just happened as they talk with Asian girls.

It's not clear why this would happen until now. Probably their Asian girls are so charming that the men cannot help being attracted, or it is more like the typical portrayal of Asian women in movies who are always submissive and horny. Whatever, the guide is good for you to avoid all the other clown mistakes and make a good first impression.

How to date an Asian girl

There is a big difference between girls grown in Asian and girls born in Asian but emigrated to and brought up in western countries. This article is mainly talked about the latter Asian girls, but most tips are suitable for all Asian girls no matter where she lives or grows up.

＃1 Treat her like a person, not an Asian. Everyone wants to be treated as a person and appreciated for their uniqueness, not for any group to which they belong. If you try to flirt with a woman by telling her how much you like Chinese women, think about how she will react. The same thing as you tell her that you love her because of her birthplace rather than her unique personality, her style, or her humor.

Usually, the words “Asia” and "Asian" should be completely avoided in the first few hours of talking to a woman. Of course, you can properly use them if it is a must. Tips here is not to use these kind of words as they may meddling up your brain and influence your behavior in some ways as you should make full use of these time and put your attention on her rather her nationality.

＃2 Play guessing-game. One of the boring things men are doing when approaching an Asian woman is trying to guess where she is from. Some people even try to greet with several Asian words they happen to know, tending to say hello in Mandarin to a woman of Korean descent born and raised in Fresno, California.

She or her family is an important part of her life story, which needs the right time and place to ask for this kind of information. But in a few minutes, it's best to be a good listener and be interested in what she's saying, and she will likely tell you her story slowly.

＃3 Culture lovers. It could never be better if you are interested in foreign cultures. To have a better conversation with Asian girls, many people also tend to integrate into Japanese culture and they learn a lot from Japan animation to Samurai code. When you first watch Hayao Miyazaki's movie, don't tell her how much you like it, which she has met someone like you before, but the move "I love your culture" will immediately trigger her creepy Asian fetish firewall.

Again, it doesn't matter if you get into Asian culture, and the weird thing is to expose this fact too quickly. You won’t do this if you talk with a non-Asian woman. Approach her like any other person without paying special attention to the fact that she is Asian and this is where to start. The fact that you know medieval Japanese history is interesting, but if you bring it up naturally, it's not a good conversation starter.

＃4 Diagnosis: Yellow fever. Some people are only attracted to Asian women-people often call it "yellow fever." If you have this, don’t tell them how your brains are wired and don’t tell her your yellow fever under any circumstances. You may like big breasts, but when you approach the talented woman in the bar, you shouldn’t tell her that's why you got into her.

When you know more about your dating partner, then you can unveil your dating history slowly. A few days later, you may mention that your past girlfriend is also Asian., which will raise a red flag for her, and there is no surprise that she will understand.

Tell her that Asian women are physically attracted to you, but emphasize that you are dating her for the third time because you like her personality, and you like to be with her is not just because of her skin tone. Asian women are skeptical of yellow fever patients, but she will understand if you tell her the right way.

＃5 Take it easy. A more harmful myth about Asian women is that it’s easy to get them. Western soldiers returning from the Asian War brought back the stories of Asian women like anyone who can sleep with them as they are prostitutes. The film industry further supports their portrayal of Asian women in that way. The result is that a huge Asian porn genre described all Asian women as living sex dolls.

The truth may be the opposite. Even Asian girls who brought up in western countries tend to remain a conservative concept about sex from their parents or grandparents, not to mention native Asian girls who are more conservative. If your brother brags about his Thai girlfriend are more.....Yes, if it is, he will pay the price anyway.

If you want to date an Asian girl, you can get to know her easily as you treat her just like other girls. The myth will lead you nowhere unless bringing your brain and charm, stay in shape, dressed properly and to be a gentleman.

＃6 Forget stereotypes. Many people think that Asian women are submissive. Men often think that an Asian woman is exactly what they want as they want the days when cooking, cleaning, raising children and keeping children out of sight are all women work. To be honest, this is stupid. If this is really what you want, then a woman who grew up in Asia may come closer, but even so, it has more differences than your eyes can see. Just like in the West, more and more women in Asia tend to have equal opportunities as men, have higher education, and running government and large companies.

If you date with an Asian woman who brought up in your country, guess what？ She will just like other girls in your country. Those who pursue Asian women in search of a submissive woman are almost always disappointed.

The elegant features and the exotic feminine beauty of Asian women appeal to any man. But if you approach her as she is an Asian girl, not an individual, you will only become another creepy guy who will be scoffed at by her and her friends.