What is not suitable for couples to say

Between couples, chat communication can play a role in enhancing feelings, but if you choose the wrong topic, it may have the opposite effect. So what can’t the couple say?

1. Love history and predecessor

Many people may think that talking about love history and their predecessors does not have much impact between couples. If the other party really loves themselves, they will certainly be able to accept their past, and let the other party understand their own past properly, which is also conducive to feelings. .

But this kind of talk about your love history is a taboo in intercourse.

Love is exclusive, possessive jealousy is inevitable, both men and women hope that the person they love is completely their own, and hope that they are the only one in the other person's heart.

Everyone may have a history and a past, but the key is to let go of the past and embrace the present.

2. Negative energy

Everyone has a bad life. At this time, it is easy to think about things badly, treat life negatively, and complain. I want to find someone to talk to, and the first thing I think of is the other half of myself, which can be understood.

However, if you suffer from a little frustration, you voluntarily give up, and always find the other party complaining, and negative energy bursts will greatly affect the mood of others.

Emotional garbage is also garbage. No one will be happy if it splashes on others. After living for so long in the future, if you have been so negative, how can the other party believe that you will be happy with you?

3. The boy/girlfriend of someone else's house

Many people like to compare too much and take it every day: how is the boyfriend and girlfriend of other people's family, how good, how good and how good is he.

Everyone has a different personality and work style. Each couple has their own way of getting along. There is no need to envy others. Their way of getting along may not be suitable for you. There is no need to urge and suppress their men according to other people’s examples. ,girlfriend.

4. Criticism against the other party

There are always some people who regard their EQ low as straight, very straightforwardly saying how bad their boy/girlfriend is, saying that the other party is incapable, makes little money, thinks that the other party has a bad temper, and does not look pretty...

There is no perfect person. If you still like the other person to make him better and better and change in the direction you want, then praise and encouragement will always be more useful than criticism and crackdown.

Respect each other from the heart, and let the other party feel this respect, which is the basis of a benign development of a relationship.