How to compound after breaking up
1. Find the reason for breaking up
The first point is, to find the most fundamental reason for breaking up, why two people break up, this is the most important, after breaking up, if you can reflect on yourself, think about why the two broke up, what caused the breakup, This has a great effect on compounding.
2. Give each other some time
Two people need to understand each other. Frequent quarreling and breaking up will only make the other person feel tired, so it is true that he loves you and feels tired. So if you want to get together, you should find a time to chat. If you really want to start over, then you should find the problems that exist when you get along with each other. After you solve the problem, you have the motivation to continue to love again.
If he really loves you, he will still come to you when he is ready to be with you. Give him a little time to think more about it, and he can do something within his power to let him know you Thoughts on him.
3. Flexible use of IQ EQ
Since the other party chooses to break up, you must understand that you can only be friends or even strangers in the eyes of the other party. Your words and deeds cannot cross the boundaries of your friends, but you can occasionally reveal that you still have a deep relationship with the other party. feeling.
4. Give the other party minimum trust and be trusted
Now choose love and love together again, and you show that you still care about the other party in each other's heart. There is another party's part in each other's heart. What is the most critical point for the two lovers immediately? It is a moderate trust. You can guarantee that the other party can trust, but also trust the other party, can not be sensitive or suspicious of the other party all day, he chose to stay with me again because he really loves me? Will he back me like others? Will not Will one day break up with me again? Untrust is an invisible knife in emotions, it can cut off strong emotions anytime, anywhere.
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