How to Tell if your Boyfriend Become A Good Husband

When a woman is already considering a serious relationship leading to marriage, she also needs to consider how to figure out whether her boyfriend will become a good husband. When you think about your boyfriend, do you see him as a good husband in case you'll get married to him? If you're a woman who may have this very important issue in life on how to tell if your boyfriend will make a good husband then you need to study and observe his personality traits. 

1. Observe how your boyfriend behaves and looks at other women. If he's not going to stop staring at them when you're still dating, chances are, he's not going to stop even when you're married. Study how he treats you when you go out in public places because this will be one of the signs that may lead you to think whether he'll be a good husband. Faithfulness and honesty are the most important components in being a good husband.

2. Consider how he talks about the future. If your boyfriend is ready and open to a deeper commitment then he will habitually use phrases like "we can do it", "our lives together", "we will think about it" or "for us." Generally, a man who is single-minded will talk more often about the future in terms of himself in it only. This will give you an indication concerning where his primary focus is, so be mindful when the two of you are having a serious conversation with regards to family life or about the future. 

You need to consider these vital things like whether both of you plan to have kids or not. This is an important aspect to take into account and you should know if he really wants to have kids or not. Observe how he treats children or his own if he has any from a previous relationship. Your boyfriend should be able to include you in his future plans and is deeply interested and excited on how you'll live your lives together as a couple.

3. Be mindful of how your boyfriend tries to make you happy by getting rid some aspects of his behavior that you don't agree with. If he knows that you don't want to be with a man who allows himself to be controlled by alcohol or drug addiction then he should stop drinking or taking drugs. 

If you think that the manner of conducting oneself is a very important aspect to become a good hubby then he should know how to respect your beliefs and values. If he is totally willing to give up his bad habits for the betterment of your relationship then this is a positive sign that he will become a good husband.

4. Observe your man when you're around with your male friends or co-workers. Does he talk negatively about them in an angry manner? If he does then your man could easily get jealous that will make your relationship difficult to handle especially when he'll become your husband. 

Study how he conducts himself when he is with his friends too. Does he call your name often to ask you to get his friends something to drink or get him something that he immediately need while he's with them? If your boyfriend is doing this to you then he might be showing to his friends that he can easily control you. A good husband will not treat his wife like a servant. He will always respect, care and lend a helping to his wife.

5. Notice how your boyfriend acts when he is angry or upset. If he can't control his temper and is able to hurt you emotionally, mentally and physically then there is a big possibility that he will continue to do this and may hurt you even more when you'll get married. A good husband will try his best to make himself calm in times of challenges and difficulties in life in order for your relationship to work well. 

It is normal that there are certain times when couples disagree but not to the point that they constantly yell at each other, keep bringing up past mistakes that had nothing to do with the present argument and end up hurting the other partner physically. An abusive boyfriend will never become a good husband. A man can still argue by simply presenting his side of the issue in an adult way and manner.